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[babygirl]

i have a lil problem and i thought the ladies on this site could help me out. you ladies always have such beautiful and kind words. Im still very young and i know you ladies have had more life experience, so i was hoping you could lend me some advice..

i may have been a bit of an asshole(can i say that on here?) to someone i care deeply about. i said something i really shouldnt have, well the way it came out was the wrong way. i think i may have hurt their feelings. It wasnt my intentions at all, i would never want to hurt this person in anyway shape or form. I always seem to have good intentions and end up screwing things up.im very clumsy ,Sometimes i speek with out thinking first. I dont want to lose this person, they make me want to be a better person and do great thing i never thought i could. but if i keep acting like a retard i think i may.
so heres where you gals come in... Is this something that ill grow out of?or is this just me?

p.s sorry about my grammar mannon.. was never very good in english.

[Manon]

You're too cute Babygirl...no worries about your grammar...I'm off work when I go on this forum...LOL

I'm really liking this topic, "GIRL TALK"...perhaps one should be created on this forum, under Free For All...what ya think Big Daddy et al???

To respond to your post, my suggestion is to relax. If you and this person are tight and have an understanding (a foundation to begin with), then all will be fine and will work it's way out. If not, then after you apologize, and he or she does not respond, then he or she is not worth the stress. We all make mistakes (I've certaintly made my share), and most women talk without thinking so we're bound to get into a little hot water every so often...operative word is often...LOL...I find that men, believe it or not, actually prefer to think before they speak...Best thing you can do is be yourself and allow the other person the same respect...and understand that all things happen for a reason...most arguments are situational anyhow...they come and they go...you can't control if they happen...you can only control how you react...

Good luck with your dilemma...I am sure you will be smiling and resting easy sooner than later...hope this helps...all the best girl!

[babygirl]

thanks mannon you rock! I too think that "girl talk" on the site would be fun!plus all my friends are like 20, so it would be nice to have many different ages to chit chat with.

[costa]

Isn't the whole free for all forum girl talk anyways?

[suzanne]

giggle...giggle...giggle............good point costa!!! Girl talk definately overwhelms anything else here!!

[Manon]

Anytime, Babygirl...you rock too! LMAO